FOR PEOPLE WHO JUST MOVED TO A NEW CITY FOR A JOB

9 close friends and hundreds of options, in 90 days. Or we work with you for free until you do.

Real friends, outside of work. The ones who'd pick up at 2am, and a Friday that fills itself. Ninety days of building, then you stop. The rooms know you, the chats run themselves, somebody texts you first on a Wednesday, and this city feels like home.

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My Rooms, week of MonDenver · built Sat–Sun · live Mon
MON
TUE
Social Climb, Movement Baker
Trivia, Wild Corgi, Cap Hill
WED
THU
Tempo Thursday, Colorado Harriers at Denver Beer Co
FRI
First Fridays Flow, The Spot
SAT
Frontrunners, 9th & Downing → Buzz Cafe
SUN
Sloan's Lake Run Club, Odell
This is a real week I built cold for a test client in Denver who likes climbing, running, and board games. Every room checked against its own page. Yours gets built the same way, around what you like.

The problem

You moved here for the job and you know no one. Everyone already has their circles. You've got the money to do whatever you want and no one to do it with, and you eat dinner standing up because the table feels worse. You've done the obvious: Meetup gave you one thing in common with strangers, the events gave you contacts that didn't last a few weeks. People who relocate for a job report their loneliness doubled after the move, and 56% are still struggling three months in. It doesn't fix itself.

What actually works

The same rooms, every week, at least three nights, built around what you actually like.

Friendship is measured in hours: about 50 together to become casual friends, 90 to become friends, 200 to become close. You don't get 200 hours one coffee at a time. You get them in the same rooms every week, until the third or fourth time they see you, you're not new anymore. Everybody who's actually cracked this says the same thing: a regular hobby where you keep meeting the same people. The reason nobody does it is that building the calendar and keeping it alive for ninety days is boring and hard.

So I do that part.

What you get, the 90-Day New City Circle Sprint

The opening session
An hour. What you like, when you're actually free. Instagram set up with you, Close Friends, a chat per room, your saved replies.
The Build Weekend
I disappear Saturday and Sunday. Monday, your next 90 days are on your calendar: every room, every night, recurring, reminders on. At least three nights a week; as many as your week holds.
Your 4 messages, in your voice
The day-of text, the day-after one, the small invite, the big one. Written once, in your Notes. You send them.
Your first 30 days, run
I run the weekly ten minutes, tell you who goes in which chat, and put your first Dream on the calendar.
Weeks 5 to 13, ten minutes a week
What fired, who you met, who's invited, one change. We agree the count, so day 90 is whatever we both signed.
The monthly Dream
One thing worth inviting people to.
The cohort chat
The five other people building at the same time as you.

Yours to keep

The Any-City Calendar Builder
The prompt that rebuilds your circle in any city you ever move to.
The 4-Message Sequence
The four messages and the rule, for every new person.
The Instagram FOMO Guide
How to make people want in.

Built once, yours forever. They're how you never do this from scratch again.

Your part, the plan, four lines

Show upat least 3 nights a week
Say hione line, taught
One social post a nightfrom the room
Ask for the swapwith a reason

The guarantee

Do the plan for 90 days. If you don't have your 9 close friends and hundreds of options, we work with you for free until you do.

The weekly ten minutes and the monthly Dream keep going, free, until the count lands. Your calendar's already built; we keep it alive.

"Your circle" = your Instagram Close Friends, added from rooms on your calendar. "Do the plan" = the four lines above, logged and agreed every week.

Seats

SIX PER BUILD WEEKEND

Next Build Weekend: [date]. Miss it and the next one's a month out, and a month is a long time in a new city.

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The honest part

This is the first six. I did this on myself in Vegas knowing nobody and it worked, and it's the same thing every guy who's cracked this says worked for him. Same rooms, same people, except I do the building. What I don't have yet is a wall of testimonials. What I do have is a guarantee in writing and your calendar built by Monday.

Questions

I'm an introvert.

The plan is three nights a week at rooms you'd go to anyway. The hi is one line, taught, practiced. Nobody's asked to be charming.

I tried Meetup.

One interest in common with strangers, nobody comes back. This is the same room every week.

Why Instagram?

Everyone you meet already has it. Swapping it is normal. It's the roster, the calendar, and the count, no new app.

What if I travel for work?

The calendar's built around your real weeks. Three nights is the floor; the weekly ten minutes moves things when life does.

What happens at day 90?

You stop building. The rooms know you; the circle keeps growing on its own. If you want the weekly ten minutes and the monthly Dream to keep going with me, there's a way to do that, you'll hear about it on day 90, not before.